How to Capture a Mistress (M/s Studies Books) |  | Author: Karen Martin
Publisher: Nazca Plains Corp
Category: Book
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Rating:  8 reviews
Sales Rank: 822,148
Media: Paperback
Edition: 1
Pages: 156
Number Of Items: 50
Shipping Weight (lbs): 0.7
Dimensions (in): 8.4 x 7.5 x 0.6
ISBN: 1887895752
Dewey Decimal Number: 155
EAN: 9781887895750
ASIN: 1887895752
Publication Date: February 11, 2007
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How to Capture a Mistress is a light-hearted, but aggressive approach, to mining that rare jewel, a Dominant Lady of quality, and figuring out what to do once you've found her. It will take time and dedication, but those special ladies are waiting to treasure, lead, play and discipline as necessary.
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Rethinks the way you present yourself December 30, 2006
Bill Cunningham (New York)
19 out of 19 found this review helpful
Power exchange is at the core of most BDSM (kinky) relationships. Many men seek relationships that can safely (without personal threat) transfer power from them to a woman. However, as Ms Martin points out, there is a vast difference from a Mistress and a Bitch. This book explores those differences while it also outlines steps a man can take to re-shape himself in ways that will be more appealing to a woman who is, in her own right, seeking a submissive man.
There is another advantage to this book: Ms Martin points out that people who fill out lists of kinky activities that may or may not interest them rather limit their playing field. I'll leave it to you to buy the book and read this section on your own, but I assuure you that despite extensive reading in this field, I have never before seen such a compelling reason to re-think the process of identifying common play areas with a potential play partner. Very creative and useful.
VERY EXCELLENT! January 12, 2007
D. D. Durbin (Round Rock, Tx)
18 out of 19 found this review helpful
Ms. Martin states that you don't have to be a complete spineless male to be a submissive just that you have to feel safe and have such a level of trust that is beyond "normal" comprehension. This book also explains that being a "submissive male" doesn't make you weak just a man that is "man enough" to let go and trust a woman on a level that on the Mistress/slave can udnerstand. I have been in the BDSM scene for over 10 years and never have I read such an excellent book since "Screw the Roses" by Molly Devon.
So-o-o Useful and Funny February 3, 2007
Kunda Lee Wicce (Texas)
18 out of 19 found this review helpful
This is my first review of a book. In thinking about how I would start, I found myself thinking about the author, that I would describe her as caring, intelligent, thoughtful! one of the sharpest tacks in the box, and funny! I recommend anyone looking for a mistress put themselves in her hands, throw themselves into the book, follow her instructions, do as this mistress says. It will help me (your future mistresses) notice you and see your attractive qualities! While I bought the book to learn what her advice was to men, I found myself engrossed, and learning how to be a more discerning person. She gives us all utter permission to be our better selves and have more satisfaction from it. What a fabulous book!
Capture your fantasy in realistic fashion December 29, 2006
Angela M. Persons (Texas)
8 out of 8 found this review helpful
The author has addressed the basics of how to find a compatible partner for kink activities in a refreshing, logical and workable manner. No matter where on the BDSM spectrum you are this book addresses a practical approach to determining your needs, not just your wants. She builds from there in a systematic fashion ways to find your kink partner, how to approach her in an acceptable fashion and reap positive results. The crowning point of this primer is her discussion of negotiations and how to both listen actively and communicate effectively.
The author liberally illustrates with real life examples both successful outcomes and the the faux pas that happen to even the most experienced players in the world of kink. Most importantly she provides a blueprint for achieving a submissive man's most cherished goal....finding a Mistress.
A January 14, 2007
CC, BRC Editor (Metro Atlanta GA USA)
8 out of 9 found this review helpful
In the world of kink there are infinite variables. Ms. Martin approaches the task of How to Capture a Mistress with easy to read understandable methodology using logical progression. She encompasses insights for both the novice and experienced to achieve their goals. She has managed to include fantasy and reality mixed with a dash of humor making this a very desirable how to book with panache.
Hallmark card - $3.99, Godiva Gift basket - $32.50 and up, Leather pants - $69.00 and up. This book? Priceless! It is a must have for every man seeking that elusive Mistress.
(Note: It is an equally useful tool as a communication base for Ladies of quality as well.)
If there were New York Times best seller list for kink books I would expect to see this book at number one for a very long time. I give it an unequivocal two thumbs up.
CC
BRC Editor
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